Wahai Wanita

"Wahai kaum wanita, bersedekahlah and perbanyakkanlah beristighfar, kerana aku melihat kalian adalah yang paling banyak menghuni neraka" 

Hadis riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim

Kaum wanita paling senang nak masuk neraka. Kenapa? 

For me, I personally feels that AURAT is the main reason why. Zaman sekarang, wanita lebih terdorong kepada pengaruh Barat especially when it comes to fashion. Ada wanita yang bertudung tetapi pakaian masih menjolok mata. Being a woman in hijab, I admit, it is very difficult to balance between fashion and religion. 

Fashion is Fashion, Islam is Islam.

Fashion is dressing up to create ATTENTION. In Islam, creating attention on a women's body is haram. 

Nevertheless, kaum wanita jugalah yg paling senang nak masuk syurga =)
Lagi-lagi yg dah berumah tangga. Senyum pada suami je dah dpt pahala. Ni kan pula pada perbuatan harian seperti menyediakan makanan, minuman, pakaian, dan melayan suami. Tak susah pun. Kalau buat dgn perasaan sayang lagi bertambah2 kasih sayang Allah pada kita.Pada yang single mingle tu, nak dapat pahala pun senang jugak. Selain menjaga pakaian yg dipakai, boleh juga tambahkan pahala melalui tanggungjawab kepada ibu bapa. Cakap sopan santun, hormat pada mereka, jaga makanan dan pakaian mereka, teman mereka ke pasar, cuci rumah, cuci dapur. Mudah kan? Tau2 je dah dapat pahala. Alhamdulillah!

Alhamdulillah. Kenyang!

Had a wonderful day in the office today. Our beloved Finance Manager, Kak Yam treat the whole floor with TGI Friday! or lets called it TGI Wednesday ;P I had Championship BBQ Chicken shared with Syairah, Strawberry Milkshake and Brownies for dessert. Alhamdulillah my tummy so happy ignoring the feeling of vomiting  5 minutes later. haha.

 

About my work, I am still as free as a butterfly. I still didn't get my laptop yet which is quite stressful. My temporary laptop is killing me. I can't access to BPC or the shared drives. So my team can't give me any works. Everyday at 5.30pm sharp, I'll be packing my bags and drive back home while my colleagues are kicking their ass finishing the reports. It's year end closing for God sake! One thing that I can tell you is that, my laptop will be in my hand by this week. and most definitely next week I'll be as busy as I should be.

FYI, I am an accountant. Busy is my MIDDLE NAME.

 

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On another note, tonight is Nisfu Syaaban. Salam Nisfu Syaaban all, please forgive all my wrong doings, any hurtful feeling that I did to you or any mistakes that I had made for the past 23 years.

Please pray for my future undertaking, my performance in my work place and my marriage.

 

Thank you Ya Allah for giving me such blessful years of living.

Daily Prayers

Whenever my friend approaches me to seek for guidance or opinion, I would usually end my advice by telling them that the best way to seek for guidance is through Allah. Berdoa.And if you are torn in between 2 choices, do solat sunat istikharah.

Some of my friends asked me 

"nak doa mcm mane?"

"nak cakap mcm mane?"

"serius ke boleh mintak jodoh through doa?"

"solat istikharah ni boleh percaya ke untuk buat decision?"

 All I can say is that, everyday after prayers, I would raise my hand and start talking to Allah because He listens. The best way to speak is using language that you can understand, thus it becomes more meaningful and sincere. It doesn't mean that you must doa in Arabic, because Allah understands every language that we speak.

I held on to this doa since I was in MRSM. I did not get it from anywhere, it came sincerely from my heart. 

I hope this would help you manage your own doa.

Ya Allah Ya Tuhanku,

Ampunilah dosa-dosaku, dosa kedua ibu bapaku, dosa abg dan kakakku, dan dosa seluruh ahli keluargaku

Ampunilah dosa-dosanya, dosa kedua ibu bapanya, dan dosa seluruh ahli keluarganya

Panjangkanlah umur kami sekeluarga dan keluarganya

Semoga kami dapat meningkatkan ibadah kepadaMu disamping org2 yg kami sayangi

Kuatkanlah keimananku, ketaqwaanku, ingatanku, kefahamanku dan kekuatan diriku

Berikanlah kejayaan kepada diriku ini

Permudahkanlah urusan rezekiku agar aku dpt memperoleh rezeki yang halal disamping ketenangan hidup

Ya Allah Ya Tuhanku,

Berikanlah jodoh yang terbaik untuk diriku

Seorang lelaki yg mencintaiku sebagaimana aku mencintainya

Yang menyayangiku sebagaimana aku menyayanginya

Yang setia kepadaku sebagaimana aku setia kepadanya

Engkau jauhilah kami daripada kemungkaranMu

Semoga hubungan yg bakal kami bina ini mendapat keredhaanMu

Engkau hiasilah hubungan ini dengan kesenangan, gurau senda dan kasih sayang

Serta dikurniakan pewaris yg soleh dan solehah

Ya Allah Ya Tuhanku,

Engkau kurniakanlah kami rezeki dan kesenangan hidup setimpal dengan usaha kami

Engkau jauhilah kami daripada sikap berputus asa

Permudahkanlah urusan pekerjaan kami

Hindarilah kami daripada kekusutan dan kekecewaan

Semoga kesenangan yg kami peroleh dimanfaatkan ke jalanMu Ya Allah.

-Amin Ya Rabbal Alamin-

Never stop believing in the power of doa. 

Only Allah can grant our wishes.